I have not been visiting etsy groups over the past few days, so I am late to hearing this, but a fellow etsian lost that dearest to her in a fire, one of her children. Their home was destroyed as well. There has been a group established
to help raise money for her family by items donated & sold
From what I gather, there is also a paypal account for her, I imagine people in the group could help direct you.
Although I do not know her, my heart aches for her & her family.